Writing in the New Year

This song will always remind me of you!

These last few weeks have been very emotional.  I do not want to think about this past year of 2013 and I don't want to think about 2014.

I have been playing it really surface today. But I guess I'll go a little deeper.

I'm know people are sick of seeing me post, talk and write about this situation but I can't help it or maybe I can and I just don't want to let go.

"Have you ever been in love, been in love so bad

You'd do anything to make them understand;

Have you ever had someone still your heart away

You'd do anything to make them feel the same; 

Have you ever loved somebody so much it make you cry..."--Brandy

I'll share the video I made for him for Christmas (It wouldn't post must not been meant for me to share).  It made me cry so much while putting it together but it was all done out of love.  I just don't want him to forget about me.  I guess because it already feels like he has.  Even though he has mentioned that he misses me, I have to realize it's going to be different than how I miss him.

I've been thinking how crazy and this is only my perspective but how we connected on so many levels and so fast.  It feels like I've known him my whole life and that we were meant to be. I know it's the past but my family thought we were cute together and they liked him.  His family was wondering, they might have never said anything to him or me but I know.  Even in Chicago, his friends thought there was something between us.

"You can't force chemistry to exist where it doesn't, 

in the same way you can't deny it when it does."

I feel the chemistry. My question is, is it in my head?  To feel chemistry does it take two people?  Have I made up this whole concoction in my head that I think I'm feeling something when there isn't?  So many questions but it's neither here nor there.  He's in a relationship with the person he thinks is "the one".  So what I think, feel, see or anything is irrelevant now.

*Warning, video has profanity in it* I was feeling this video when I heard it.  I also liked the one by 50 cent too.  I chose this one.

I miss him like someone misses their mate, spouse, or significant other.  Have I been blinded by love, lust, or infatuation?

Love isn't a feeling, it's shaving your balls." -American Wedding (I'm watching right now, lol)

I've been thinking a lot this past week after talking with him last week.  When I seen him, my feelings were still there and his hug, oh his hug!!!  It makes me weak.  But that's besides the point, I totally understand some of the things she's going through.  I commend her for talking about it.  I just learned to love and cried through it.  Then there are some things that make me want to slap the mess out of her.  Don't judge me. It's still hard to hear how he feels about her because it's exactly how I feel about him.  The exact same words that I have written down and feelings.  I'm happy for him and I just want him to be happy.

Memories:

I surprised him for his birthday

Skyzone, I almost died and he got it on video, resting between his legs not to lose my life

He was with me on my birthday in Atlanta (Best memory and road trip of the year)

Chicago trip that he took charge of, meeting his other best friend
Our talk in the vacant unit (miss those and love our talks)
House sitting while he was gone (miss his bed, teddy, and blankets but mostly with him in it; sung him a video song from Ps. was so scared)
He and his cousin made dinner and he brought me a plate (made me feel some kind of way)
He bought me a Snicker ice cream bar by surprise(I've always wanted to try) (it's the little things)

Meeting his dad and other family members

September, the day my heart was ripped out (Thankful for a friend who called and prayed me through, I was ready to leave this world that night)

Our first reunion on my last day of work (heartfelt)

Lunch at KC smoke burgers (man good conversations)

Being able to watch the video I made for him for Christmas (Priceless)

For the New Year, I have to and I think I'm ready to let go of these feelings and heal.  I'm ready to let go of these feelings.  I want to be able to just be his friend.  I'm ready to accept that God knows best.  Even if I'm not ready, I have to be ready...it's time.

"What hurts the most, is letting go

just to let you know, that I love you." --Monica

I'm so scared. I'm scared that I will never love someone unconditionally like this before.  I scared that I will never have a relationship that meant so much. I'm scared that I will never feel loved like this again. I'm scared that I will never open up again.  I'm so scared of so many things.  Yes, I have fear issues, I'm working on it.

"All my life, I prayed for someone like you" -Jodeci

I still get butterflies when I'm around him.  My heart pounds at the thought of looking at his social media page.  My heart started pounding a little harder just writing that.  I want to know what's going on in his life since we don't talk anymore but my heart can't handle seeing pics of them, reading comments about them or anything pertaining to "them".  I think it's so childish and people don't understand, shoot, I don't understand.  I can usually turn "it" off just like that and not care or fake it until I don't. It usually works.

"See it don't take a rocket scientist to know I love you

And it don't take a rocket scientist to know I need you

Never dreamed I'd be so happy and sure of myself" --702

Through all these feelings, I have a confession that I could only confess to him.

I don't know what the Lord has in store for our relationship.  I know that I pray for him more than I pray for myself.  His grandma has been in my spirit a lot lately and I seem to pray for her and his whole family.  I think about his best friend and sister.  I pray God's will.  Of course I want him to stay in my life but I have to be in a better emotional state so I can be the friend he needs.

I will always be grateful for the times we shared, the memories, good times, fun times and every moment with him.  Forever in my heart and prayers.  I'll love you more and always, your #999,999,999 + infinite!!!

New Year in Full force

I wrote this on 1/11/11, I'm sure there is a "correct" way of doing this but couldn't figure it out.  It's okay because this is the last one.  All post from here on out will be on this blog. Yay!
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The New Year is here and there is no turning back. This year was so different, I didn't get that fuzzy feeling inside of excitement of the new year. I still don't have that burning desire to jump and make changes or better myself. In my head, I "want" to do things but it hasn't really made it to my heart if that makes since.

This New Year has brought about a new addiction for me. I have come to understand the google RSS feed and I LOVE IT! Everyday after work, I race home to get on the computer and read blogs. I love them all! My goal, wish, and hope is for my blog to be as fabs as all the ones I've come across. I know that will take time and dedication. I know this is bad for me to say but I don't want to post on my own blog because I could be using that time to read and find new blogs. Sad, sad, sad...

So I have come across numerous encouraging sites. As mentioned earlier, I am restructuring my blog because my family is no longer in the same city with me so I can't take pictures and post funny stories. Getting my aunt to take and send pictures is hopeless. One site that I came across is called Women Living Well. This site opened doors to many more great blogs and reading opportunities. Courtney has a blog on the site and she wrote about her 2011 theme word for the year, it has to be one word. While reading this, the Lord dropped in my spirit INCREASE.

• Increase my relationship with Christ (Prayer & bible reading)
• Increase self confidence
• Increase relationship building
• Increase positive thinking
• Increase quality of health
• Increase in blog and scrapbooking *wink, wink

What is your one word theme word for the new year? Or what is your resolution for the New Year?

Good Morning Girls is my new adventure. I have really been slacking in my walk with the Lord. My heart literally hurts for the people of the world daily. More than ever, I'm seeing the end times in action and we as Christians need to be geared up to run this race. GMG has a 12 week bible study challenge. Women all over the world will be studing different books of the bible using the SOAP method.

SOAP Method:

S: Write Out the scripture passage for the day.

O: Write down 1 or 2 observations from the passage.

A: Write down 1-2 applications from the passage.

P: Pray over what you learned from today's passage.

A deeper discription can be found by clicking on any of the links in this post. The GMG will be studing the book of James but the group I joined Good morning Girls: Rising Above, the leader Lisa has been a great leader and welcomed me with open arms to their group of 30 ladies. You can go to her blog to read more about her and our study of Ruth & Esther in the bible. The plan is written out. If you are looking for a different way to study the bible, jump aboard, we start Monday, Jan 17th! I'm getting excited.

"Lord as I start this new journey of my life. Ignite
the passion the dwells deep within me that you have installed. Lord, I
pray for all the ladies that have dedicated these next 12 weeks to study Ruth
and Esther. Stir in us the same fire so we may do the work that you want
us to do. We love you for who you are and not what you do. Thank
Lord and we praise you in advance."